There was a time when I had absolutely no problem with change. Bring it on! Change brought new surroundings, new friends, new experiences, improvements, opportunities, etc. etc. Some how, some where, sometime during the past year or so, I've changed my tune...not entirely but I now better understand how and why some people are uncomfortable with change and actually fight it.
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| Azalea detail |
A while back I could absolutely not understand why my mother had to do the grocery shopping on Saturday...EVERY Saturday or why she must go to the hairdresser every Saturday at 9 AM...EVERY Saturday...at EXACTLY 9 AM. Then there was the Social Security check...why must it be delivered by the postman and not direct deposited? It took years of pleading to get that changed and what a blessing direct deposit was. I no longer have to pick up the check, go to the bank to deposit it, withdraw the requested funds, and then go back to hand it over. I know, I know...it's a simple task but, when you're working all week and have a ton of other tasks, that one change to direct deposit took a load off.
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Not sure what this is but it's growing in various locations in the neighbor's yard.
I hope it makes it's way over to mine! |
I guess my aversion to change started last year when I had the home invasion. Everything changed. Doors are locked ALL THE TIME, windows are not left open when I'm out, I watch EVERYONE and investigate every unfamiliar sound. Please don't misunderstand...I'm so over it but I can't deny, it did change certain aspects of my life and I actually think I'm stronger in many ways. BUT, I had to embrace change that I was either not ready for or not comfortable with. I got to the place I needed to be, I won, but it was not a smooth ride.
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| Mountain Laurel detail. |
So, here I am, getting ready to embrace another change. My neighbors of 20 years have moved. The two beautiful homes next door will soon be filled with new people. And with this, the sounds of the neighborhood will change, different cars will occupy parking spaces, new faces will smile and say good morning (I hope!), new relationships will have to be tested, and new trusts will have to be developed. Change in close-knit neighborhoods is sometimes tough. I've too often seen people move into an area and totally shun advances from people to welcome them. I am thinking positive and expecting only good things from this change and hoping it's a smooth ride.
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| Lupine...from my garden. |
I miss my neighbors Maryanne and George and have terribly missed Frieda since she left but, until the new neighbors arrive and the change is complete, I get to stalk their yards for photo ops. And I'm also trying to embrace another change....Shop Rite has once again rearranged the store layout. Why do they do that?!?!?! Ugh!
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| Sweet! |